After a discussion on Reddit I decided to make a video with everyone suggestions with some simple dos and don'ts for leagues when dealing with refs and NSOs.
If you would like to be involved in part two please let me know your thoughts on the subject, but as I mention in the video please no names!
You can post here, but posting in the video comments would probably be best. Thanks.
https://youtu.be/REVGSNFTfT0